There's this trend on Facebook right now where you can look at your 'Year in Review'. It shows you the 20 most popular posts or events you had on Facebook in 2013. Now, looking at my own year in review on Facebook I was wondering how they picked the most important things in my life... First because not all of my life is on Facebook. I know... Shocker! But second, because I believe the year is not about the things that happened, but who they happened with and where they led you.
So, in the spirit of doing my life a little justice, I'm here to present my own version of my Year in Review. I've made it a bulleted list to save you from my myself. I seem to be a story teller... hmmm.
- Janurary: return to finish 2nd semester of school knowing I'll be done shortly. (small victory dance) We played Ultimate Frisbee in the snow sometime during the winter... it could have been January. That was fun.
- Mid January: still unsure about teaching, I talk to a professor about options abroad... Wanderlust leading my curiosity and landing on China. China? Yeah. Let's do it. Without consulting (or even informing) my mother... which I know she hates, I applied to go to China. I don't make big decisions lightly. It may seem like I rushed this one, but it felt right. The fact that I stick to my decisions helped me feel confident too.
- Fast forward thru the next few months and you'll breeze thru portfolio presentation (nerve-wracking for me), classes, Easter, and a ton of time spent with friends. We all knew our time together was growing short, and as much as we promised to stay in touch... In our hearts we knew it would never be the same.
- After all that we land at Graduation. I don't know if it's the same for other people, but being a college graduate snuck up on me. (or perhaps being an adult is what did the sneaking). My favorite part of graduation was the last minute things. Hanging out with my rooms (Sarah), Candace and of course my best Samantha. Getting ready the morning of, and everyone wandering in and out of their rooms realizing that the gigantic shared closet we all used over the semester was all packed away. (we wore each others clothes often).
- Summer: It flew by as I took online summer courses, worked, ventured to New Ulm for a class, spent some great time camping, and then off to Minneapolis/St Paul for China training. (Still not knowing anything about my China paperwork.) I wouldn't trade anything for a weekend spent with the 7 best friends camping group, or the two weeks I spent at my college during the summer. It was strange - but I enjoyed the emptiness of it. And in July I had a three for one party to celebrate my graduation, birthday and going away. I loved being able to see all those people that I usually have to wait for a big event to see. I have to make a point of seeing them more often.
- August 30: still anxious waiting for paperwork that I'll admit I never thought would come, and was okay with it. (I know better now, I should have been more excited.) Oh, and this day is my birthday. I was blessed to spend it at home.
- September 14: Jump two weeks after my birthday and I'm in China. Luggage-less, utterly exhausted, and rather bewildered. But I had my best Laura to help me. And after a little while, some new Chinese friends too.
- December 12: another jump 3 months later... (Tomorrow, the 13th is my 3 month anniversary here… it's my longest relationship. Haha) I know, it seems like such a long time. But only 3 months, and I'm still exhausted sometimes, but much less bewildered. I can actually say "I'm living in China." I can now navigate fairly well, I bike in crazy China traffic (always trying to keep up with Laura), I have Emma, Marie, Amy, Lucy, Rella, and others to call friends. I have been traveling within China and after the new year will venture into SE Asia too.
The year will be over soon, and everyone can say they change in a year. It's the natural progression of time... we change. But looking at myself from Jan 1 and now at Dec. 10 there is a long list of things that are different. Just to name a few... On January 1st I was a 21 year old college student, living at home in America with my family and friends close at hand. Now, on December 12, I'm a 22 year old certified adult (college graduate), living abroad in China. If you had asked the average 21 year old college student what they'd be doing in a year... I don't think they would have predicted that kind of change. But then, that is what is so great about life. I get my own story, my own adventures... and Facebook doesn't know the half of it. ;)
Until next time.